Aging & Addiction

Intervention Checklist

PREPARATION IS THE KEY TO A GOOD INTERVENTION

The checklist is designed to be used in conjunction with the book "Love First: A New Approach to Intervention for alcoholism and drug addiction." Don’t plan an intervention using the checklist alone.

  • Bring together three to eight people who are important to the alcoholic and are willing to learn how to help.
  • Set up a planning meeting to discuss the intervention.
  • Choose a detail person.
  • Choose a team chairperson.
  • Do not alert the alcoholic to the intervention plans.
  • List ways you’ve tried to help that may have enabled the addiction.
  • Put in writing all the negative consequences caused by the addiction.
  • Write a one- to two-page letter to the alcoholic, following the directions in the book "Love First."
  • Read your letters aloud, editing out anger, blame, and judgment.
  • Determine bottom lines, and write them down on a separate page.
  • Test each other’s willingness to follow through with the bottom lines.
  • Identify financial resources for covering treatment costs.
  • Evaluate treatment centers using the evaluation questions.
  • Set a date, time and place for the rehearsal and the intervention.
  • Choose a treatment center, answer its pre-intake questions, and make an appointment for admission.
  • Make airline reservations if the treatment center is out-of-state.
  • Create a plan to bring the alcoholic to the intervention.
  • Identify objections the alcoholic may use to avoid or postpone treatment, then formulate your answers.
  • Pack a suitcase using the guidelines provided by the treatment staff.
  • Determine who should drive the alcoholic to treatment.
  • Compile a list of all medications the alcoholic is presently using.
  • Rehearse the intervention.
  • Decide where each person will sit, including the alcoholic.
  • Discuss the order in which you’ll read your letters.
  • Find a discreet place to park your cars.
  • Script the chairman’s introduction and closing statement.
  • Review objections and answers.
  • Plan to arrive at the intervention location 30 minutes before the alcoholic is expected to be there.
  • If the intervention is taking place at the alcoholic’s home, arrive as a group.
  • After the intervention, call the admissions staff and let them know whether or not the alcoholic has agreed to treatment.
  • Collect all letters and send them to the alcoholic’s counselor.
  • Sign up for the Family Program.
  • Locate an Al-Anon or Family Anonymous meeting near your home or office.

Adapted from the book Love First: A New Approach to Intervention for Alcoholism and Drug Addiction, by Jeff Jay and Debra Jay, published by Hazelden. All rights reserved.